Friday, 12 June 2009

  • Skinny Vs. Strong - Who Wins?

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    In a cage fight between skinny & strong who will win? On the left we have Jaslene Gonzales, winner of America's Next Top Model, Cycle Whatever. On the right we have an unnamed CrossFit woman. What's your call?

    CrossFit chick, hands-down. Maybe in a bar fight and if Jaslene had a broken bottle. And the element of surprise. Then... Okay, not even then. CrossFit chick takes it in every scenario I can think up.

    Never Thin Enough
    Andrea Muizelaar, winner of Canada's Next Top Model, Cycle Infinite Winter, found this out the hard way. You may remember her from 2006 when she did what many would consider the unthinkable: she walked away from her title and modeling contracts because even as an emaciated anorexic, she was still told she wasn't thin enough.

    One art director told her not to waste her money on a personal trainer, "This is real world," she was told. "It's long and lean that sells, not long, lean and muscular." Comments like that came all the time. "I was told in my skinniest stage: 'You gotta tone up your stomach; it's a little too big'," she said. She adds that she was so malnourished that her toenails were falling off (now that's high fashion!) and she was so weak that opening a heavy door was nearly impossible. (source)

    At last she decided to choose her health over her modeling career and she scrapped it all, heading back home to her small home town in Canada where she got a job at a bank and enrolled in college.

    Here she is (left) at the height of her modeling days. Here she is (right) today.

      Then  

    Finally Strong Enough
    Her new healthy lifestyle was recently put to the test. On a cruise with a friend to the Caribbean, they were accosted by armed thieves. Her friend had a knife put to his throat and was knocked almost unconscious. Andrea managed to fight off her attackers, kicking, screaming and scratching. She escaped and ran to a nearby village to get help. Her friend was quickly found and, save for a concussion for her friend and lots of bruises and cuts on Andrea, both came out of it unhurt. (Incidentally, the villagers who came to her rescue were described as "several burly women with baseball bats." How awesome is that?!?!)

    Imagine - going from being too frail to open a door to being strong enough to kick your way free from armed attackers. "If this had happened when I was [a] Top Model..., I would probably be a lot more messed up than I am right now," Andrea concluded.

    Training For Thin Vs Training For Strong
    When put in that light, every woman I know would say that of course she would rather be strong than skinny. The irony, however, is that most women train exactly the opposite (as Andrew once accused me of doing although hopefully we've worked that miscommunication out). Their entire focus is on skinnifying - read: endless calorie burning - instead of building muscle.

    Now, nobody wants to look like the 1976 East German Women's Swim Team. Not even the East German swim team wants to look like the East German swim team. But your end goal definitely determines the type of training and nutrition program you use. The difference is between seeing food as evil vs. seeing food as fuel. The difference is heavy functional lifting vs. endless reps with a 3-lb dumbbell. The difference is deciding that what our bodies can do is more important than how they look.

    I'm a girl. In our society, even. Believe me, I feel the thin pressure as much as anyone. We are told over and over again that our looks are our power and we are only as good as our last Botox treatment. But I, and I believe most of you too, don't totally buy that message. We buy People but we also get Women's Health. We lift weights because muscle is more compact than fat and will help us fit in our jeans better but we also get a little thrill every time we go to put up our ponytail and a bicep pops out. It's that balance that I'm always looking for, sometimes succeeding and sometimes not.

    But I'm telling you, if comes down to wearing a size zero or being able to kick some bad-guy booty in a knife fight - at the very least I'm coming out of that with a chunk of somebody's ear. Now, if someone can please tell me where I can sign up for Krav Maga I'll be set.

    PS> Lifting heavy will NOT make you look like a dude. Unless you are a dude. In which case, you probably should take the lipstick off. At least on the weight floor.

    If you had to choose between being skinny or strong, which one would you pick and why?

    This is a guest blog written by Charlotte Anderson, from thegreatfitnessexperiment.blogspot.com


Comments (307)

  • StarlitGoodbyes@xanga
  • hot_skinnyness@xanga
  • Mercredi@lovelyish

    I chose thin... sorry  :)

  • laurenmaureen@xanga

    honestly? skinny.
    i never liked the whole buff-girl-abs-of-steel look =/
    but i would never be anorexic-skinny. that's just nasty.

  • MangoWOW@xanga

    Skinny. I know it sounds horrible but thats the way it is. I've never cared about my health and consequently have ended up being grossly overweight my entire life. However this past year I decided to change from the fat girl who cries about her weight to the fat girl who hits up the gym 4 times a week. I never cared about my health and I still don't. But I've decided that I'm in college and I want to be able to look back when I'm older and think about how good I looked. Of course, I don't want to be stick skinny. I just want to make it to a normal weight so I'm not embarassed to walk around in a bikini at the beach.

  • noree_n@xanga

    skinny! 

    i don't need all that muscle :)

  • LiquidityOfSelf@xanga

    I'm not to the point where I can accept strong over skinny. With muscle comes weight gain, expansion...not slenderness. I'm only 5 feet, so bulking up looks ridiculous on me. I want so badly to be thin and lean. It kills me, because my body wasn't made for it. But I applaud you for this entry...strength SHOULD be the focus, I realize that now, but I can't make myself want it over skinny legs and a tiny waist. 

  • yuk_lui@xanga

    in between...
    slim but toned?
    but i prefer skinny tho

  • i_Nutrition@xanga

    strong and healthy.
    lean muscle mass helps increase our resting BMR, so it helps you burn more calories and keep your metabolism up.

  • scruffylizard@xanga

    god, the responses to this are scary.

  • Begierde@lovelyish

    Skinny and toned. You can be both, it's true.
    But too much muscle is yuk, too much skinny too.

    nevrtheless, shame on me, I prefer the picture where she is redhead in a blue dress...

  • Yipz

    If I may give my entirely biased chauvinist view, I would say that a cross between the two, meaning thin and buff would be my ideal sexy woman. For instance, if we were to look at skinny girls such as paris hilton or this recent winner of America's next top model, we'd - or I'd at least feel like I'd break her in half. The twig is NOT sexy, and to blame eating disorders on men is pretty unfair. We DON'T like super thin models, and we DON'T look at fashion magazines.

    If it were me, I'd go for muscle chick. But with less muscle. I don't want to fear for my life every time I leave the toilet seat up.

  • shes_lump@xanga

    You know who is skinny, strong and sexy? Evangeline Lilly.... aka Kate from Lost. Oh my god I want her body!!!

  • mustardcat@xanga

    They both suck. Where's the comfortable middle?

  • LadyLibellule@xanga

    @scruffylizard@xanga - No kidding.

    I'm already skinny.  I'd like to be strong.  Untoned skinny is not that attractive.  Plus, I'd like to have the strength to do cool stuff like mountain biking and rock climbing.

  • hungerx33@xanga

    I totally agree that the responses to this are scary. It seems these girls don't even want to open a door well we all know what will happen when their older, strength is way better. You mentioned in this post that you will not look like a man if you aren't one and that is true. Just because you are strong and have muscle, doesn't mean you are going to look like a huge bodybuilder if you use weights. You can be thin but not 70lbs bone filled nothingness, or be thin and have strength to you to be able to do whatever you want to. Plus girls start losing bone mass at 25 so it's not going to help you at all with your attitudes. I'm scared.

  • methodElevated@xanga
  • SoHoian_NightOwl@xanga

    who says you can't be both :] 

  • JoeytheGenie@xanga

    strong....
    im actually quite excited. my core isn't prefectly toned yet (i still have a tad of flab) but i swear im starting to form a little sex v...
    and not it doesn't make me look buff but rather...idk...it just looks cool

  • Pcgecko85@xanga

    in between! Skinny girls are whatever.

  • Strong_Protector@xanga

    I guess I like girls to be in between.  Also, I'm not a fan of super skinny girls.  Girls should be toned and healthy, and they should not be cut either.  That's just weird.  Just exercise and eat healthy, then your body will look fine. 

  • xSayakax@xanga

    LOL...I think people misunderstand you w/ the extreme anarexic vs macho girl.  I don't like the exteme of either.  I like a middle ground; a balance between the two.  Strong, but not muscular, skinny, but not frail.  I want to be the right size skinny and the right strength strong, if you know what I mean 

  • borntoresist@xanga

    both can be qually detrimental, especially to women, who are naturally supposed to have a higher fat percentage. healthy toned nutritionally balanced wins :)

  • myskinnyfiles@xanga

    I prefer slim and toned. 


    I had the skinny phase, 5'8, 123lbs could fit in a size 0...I hardly ate, hardly moved, was constantly sick, had no energy, slightly bobbleheaded, and I thought I looked great!  O_o 


    A year and a half, more then 10lbs heavier, and a size 2-4 rather then size 0-2 later, I can play team sports like ultimate frisbee and soccer for over an hour and actually be able to keep up (I'm not saying I'm any good at it though, but it is fun), I have a TON of energy, a really perky butt and toned thighs, and while the rest of my friends went through flu season, I skipped it entirely.


    It takes awhile to find a balance that you learn that you can keep and live with.  I like being able to play team sports and full day of paintball.  I'm about 136lbs now.  I wouldn't have been able to do that without getting dizzy and exhausted when I was 123lbs.

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