1. Thin Brings Happiness and Beauty. Let me just state this - thin nor skinny brings a person happiness. There are plenty of people who are that are not, and there are plenty of people who are in the bigger range who are very happy. By trying to force your body to adhere to an extreme regimen, you will become consumed with weight loss and will not be able to concentrate on much else. When you finally get to that 'goal weight', your problems will still be there - you won't be any happier. You may be smaller, but not happier. Before I went to treatment for my eating disorder I was clinically underweight, but was I happy? Far from it.
2. Fat Grams Are Bad For You. [click] You need up to sixty fat grams a day, and fat grams actually help your body in many ways. Fat grams also make your body feel full so you consume less food - it's like your body has its own dieting mechinism. The less fat you consume, the more hungry you will be resulting in binging and a higher food consumption - which guess what? Leads to weight gain when it's in excess.
3. Fasting is Healthy and Makes You Lose Weight. I'm not going to dispute the fact that fasting makes you lose weight - at first. But did you know that fasting actually makes you GAIN weight?
[click] When you don't eat for a certain amount of time, your body goes into starvation mode. Once in that mode, any food that you consume your body will hold onto and convert into fat stores for if, and when you're starving again.
[click] That way, your body will have energy to burn. i.e - The more you starve, the more fat your body will make in case it happens again. And if you're one of the girls who say "I just won't eat. Ever.", you WILL end up eating again, and when you do, prepare for significant weight gain.
4. Anorexia/Bulimia Won't Effect YOU. This is what everyone tries to believe when it comes to themselves. Hell, even I tried to convince myself of it, but it's simply not true. Eating disorders have serious health consequences if you do not get help. Anything from cancer (yes, cancer), arthritis, gum disease, dehydration, depression, low blood sugar, diabetes, edema, ulcers, acid reflux, organ failure, lanugo, and osteoporosis to name a few, as well as death
[click]. is it really worth it? I thought I was in the clear until I ended up in the hospital twice. The first for a suspected heart attack, and the second for sever arthritis and low potassium - which can kill you if your levels get too low. Hospital gowns and painful IV's are not glamorous, and they are not something you want, but if you continue to 'play ana' it will happen. It's just a matter of time.
5. You Can Stop Whenever You Wish. Many 'ana's' will tell you that you can stop an eating disorder whenever you wish, but this is simply not true. You do NOT control it, it controls YOU. Why else do you think they get so out of control? If you could just turn on and off an eating disorder whenever you wished, there would be no need for treatment centers, and there would be no death as a result. (Eating disorders have the highest fatality rate out of any other mental illness.)
6. The Media is to Blame. While the media and the 'skinny' ideal may be to blame for dieting, dieting is NOT the same as an eating disorder.
[click] Eating disorders are mental illnesses, which have been proven to be sparked more so with a past instance of psychological trauma. They are about dealing, coping, and having control.
[click] My eating disorder has never been about the media and trying to look 'skinny like a model.' My disorder has always been about control. Nothing else. There have been reports on anorexia as far back as the middle ages
[click] in the form of 'holy anorexia', and in fact, anorexia nervosa was first diagnosed around 1870
[click], far from when there was a well known media, and long before the rise of super skinny super models such as Twiggy and Kate Moss. If there was an emergence of eating disorders as far back as the middle ages, and 1800's, where is the media to blame for this psychological disorder?
7. Anyone Can Be 'AnA'! You here their cries and outright lies constantly, so why should you believe 'pro-ana's' when they claim it doesn't matter who you are, but anyone can be 'ana's slave'? The plain truth is, that you shouldn't. This is where the DSM-IV criteria comes in. The DSM is quite honestly like the Bible of mental illness. To have anorexia nervosa, the criteria states, you must meet several things; a refusal to maintain a body weight of above a BMI of 18.5, intense fear of gaining weight or maintaining weight even while underweight, and a disturbance in the way ones body is perceived. One may also have Amenorrhea; loss of menstrual cycle.
[click] [click]. While the DSM should be motified in some ways, this is the criteria for a reason. So you weigh 200lbs? So you fast for a day before deciding to enjoy food too much? So you have a BMI of over 18.5? So you don't have anorexia nervosa. Granted, you may fit the classification for bulimia nervosa
[click] or even ED-NOS
[click], but you are not medically anoretic.
8. Eating Fixes the Problem. I cannot stress this enough; just eating will not solve the problem alone. Yes, it is vital in recovery and getting better, but unless a person has help along the way in the form of therapy, treatment, and/or medication, eating will not suddenly make a person okay with eating. It will not make a person healthy again. It will not make a person suddenly cured. It goes deeper than just eating. Yes, those few more bites a day of a sandwhich each day will make it easier, but it will not cure you.
Why are these myths ever worth believing?
Comments (122)
i think people with a bmi over 18.5 can be considered anorexic. my friend has a thyroid problem that prevents her from being thin, but she will go days at a time without eating.
i agree. i have had every single symptom of anorexia besides the weight category. and it sucks because people are just like ''uh.. borderline?" lame! i love you cassandra! great post dear! <3
Thanks for posting some research sites along with your post to validate your point.
I hope this gets featured. Great post! So true.
It doesn't make sense that you have to have a BMI under 18.5 to be considered anorexic. Some one who started off heavier could be anorexic, they just haven't been long enough to get under that weight. That's what makes sense to me anyway, I really don't know much about eating disorders. Anyway, great post. I didn't know eating disorders went back so far in history.
@emmaleaaa@xanga - You're so right. I know anorexic girls who are like 130-150 lbs, which is like normal weight I think? So they can't get treatment...but they started at like 170/180 so they definitely still have a problem. Its sad, really. Everyone deserves help.
Amazing post. Very informative and just so true. I struggle with my weight all the time, sometimes trying to put off eating until I'm starving, but I don't deprive myself. I've decided for a long time to take the healthy route and eat healthier foods and I'm pretty skinny ! My BMI is around 17, so yeah, I'm technically underweight for my height and age but it's not because I'm anorexic, though I get accused of being so ahaha It's because I decided to eat healthy and exercise, not because I fasted for weeks on end and drank nothing but water.Â
Again, great post. The facts are quite interesting, too ! Thanks for posting :]
@emmaleaaa@xanga - @ate_kate@xanga - That's why I believe that the DSM criteria for anorexia needs to be re-written. But until then.. ED-NOS is what it falls under, which is just as serious, if not more because it goes undetected more times than not.
Thank You..
& @ate_kate@xanga - @emmaleaaa@xanga -
It is really sad. However I was still able to go for outpatient treatment at 135 lbs which is pretty average for my height and i went with other girls that were all dif. sizes and i'm really greatful for it.. i think being a heavier weight when being diagnosed with bulimia is more common but it really should be known that people who struggle with any eating disorders aren't always stick thin however they do all deserve to get better.@AnchorsAwayx@xanga @emmaleaaa@xanga - You can be disgnosed but it's normally only if you've lost a signifcant amount of weight already. In most cases, a BMI over 18.5 would class a person as having EDNOS, even if their habits are that of an anorectic.
@AnchorsAwayx@xanga - Only if they want to lose weight. I have friends who are naturally tiny ans eat pizzas. It's a mental illness. You can be anorexic with a BMI of 25... if you don't eat...
I have a bmi of 19 and don't consieder myself skinny because I am not... I have fat because i never execize lol. But sometimes i feel really pretty. because skinny does not mean "pretty" as you say
i like this article even if i don't learn anything. lol. there's a big difference btwn pro ana and anorexics and I think a lot of pro anas wil answer "thank you" or things like that just to appear different...
i've gained weight. i've finally decided to accept it... for my clothes? I don't need to lose weight... i need to BUY NEW CLOTHES lol
You can say what you want (even the truth, that's what you are doing in this post), they won't pay attention or won't listen to you. They'll say "well it's true, thank you" but that' s all. Even if they have no eating disorder yet, they have an obsessive problem. They are conditionning themselves to think and apply tips.It's different from anorexia (but in fact, tell this to an anorexic would have the same result..).
I like your article even If I learn nothing from it, but if it can help One girl (by being a deterrant for exemple r help someone dieting too much), it's a good one.
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great post.
@emmaleaaa@xanga -
the DSM has very strict guidlines for diagnosing any mental illness, including anorexia, which is why people can have all the anorexic behaviours and thoughts, but not be diagnosed. it's really frustrating, and also dangerous for the person with it. on an eating disorder support forum i'm a member of, we have no one (as far as i know) who fits all the criteria for anorexia. we have several members with bulimia. the rest of us are all EDNOS - we usually write 'with anorexic tendencies' or 'with bulimic tendencise' after it, because that's what we are.
@UnrevealedTruth_xo@xanga - i agree, the DSM criteria definitely needs to be re-written.
this was so good
thank you, this was probably the best featured post i've seen in awhile
To those of you that think people can be anorexic and not have a BMI under 18.5, you're wrong. Study the psychology books. Do your research. I don't care if you have every single symptom minus the fact that you're not at a low enough weight, because without that weight factor you are NOT anorexic. You might have "anorexic tendencies" or being diagnosed with EDNOS, but you aren't anorexic. I am not saying this to be mean. I am saying this from the the view point of a person who has studied psychology for the past 5+ years and read numerous books on eating disorders (yet still ironically suffers from one herself) ... Just voicing my opinion.
Wonderful post. Hopefully this stops people before they get caught up in the nightmare that is an eating disorder.
@Begierde@lovelyish - I realized that, believe me. But like you said, if it can get through to someone, even just one person, that's what would make it worth writing. A lot of these myths are also believed by people who do not have eating disorders, so I thought it was vital in some way to have the truth recognized.
I like this, it is the most truthful and valid post I have read about eating disorders.
I bet you put a lot of thought into this post! Well written and to the point, thank you!
thanks for writing this. i'm sick of naive little girls assuming that eating disorders are the answer to their problems.
hello,
it is outstanding.
keep it up.
simply wonderful post.
regards.
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(tito dutta)
very well written. i hope some girls who need this come across it, and get a wake up call.
The media's influence has a lot to do with it. How many movies show the perfect ideal protagonist as a size 2 or smaller? Even movies that try to show that plusr sized people are beautiful (Shallow Hal, 200 Pounds Beauty) show their protagonist at their best as a smaller size that is impossible for the busy, average person to maintain.
@Parsimony@xanga - Re-read what I had written - media influences diets, not eating disorders ED's are mental illnesses. Why else do you believe that there are accounts of eating disorders as far back as there is? Back then, big was the ideal.
@AnchorsAwayx@xanga - I agree. Anorexica is not a "club" where you have to have a certain number to fit in. Starving yourself for days is Anorexic behavior.
It's just stupid. Let's say I start starving myself now, my BMI is 22.
8 weeks down the road my BMI is 18.5
Uh, not really.