Wednesday, 07 October 2009
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Diet Addicts: Are You One?
Is it possible to be addicted to dieting? I always thought if we had an addiction, it was to the food, not to the dieting. And then I ran into an old friend, someone I hadn’t seen in a while, and got into a fascinating conversation, which lead me to today’s topic.
I’ve known this friend for about 7 years now, and during that time, I’ve seen his weight go up and down many times. And on this recent encounter, I noticed that he had shed a few pounds since I’d last seen him. I complimented him on this, and this got us into a discussion about what he was doing to shed the weight this time. Turns out he is going to a very strict weight-loss center, that has put him on a 800-calorie a day diet, basically consisting of (and I am not kidding here) boiled chicken and leafy greens. No carbs, no alcohol, no fruit, no anything except boiled chicken and leafy greens. (All for the “low” cost of $160 per week!)
I asked him a few questions about sustainability, did he think he could eat like that forever, and here’s where I had the big revelation! He answered quite emphatically that yes, he was going to continue this routine long-term, even after the weight had been shed. (This from a guy who loves food, socializing, the occasional beer or drink etc.). He mentioned loving the feeling of “being in control” again, which he hadn’t felt in a long time.
This brought back memories of my own diets over the years, and that often the greatest thing to come out of a diet wasn’t even the pounds shed, but that wonderful feeling of being in control. But this is a facade, because it is not the dieter who is in control, but rather the diet itself.
The dieter doesn’t control what foods to eat, the diet does. The dieter doesn’t control the portions, the diet does. The dieter doesn’t control the frequency of weigh-ins, the diet program does. The dieter actually gives up control when on a diet, and this is what I think dieters get addicted to!
They get addicted to the feeling of not having to be in control! This can feel so good after having been out of control for so long. And as we all know, being out of control feels pretty bad most of the time.
I liken this to what a drug addict goes through when they enter rehab. Although drug withdrawal causes many uncomfortable physical symptoms, many addicts report a sense of emotional relief at being in rehab. They feel they are finally in control over their addiction, just as an active dieter feels in control over their food choices. But this is a false illusion! You know this is true by how many drug addicts end up back in rehab and how many dieters end up back on a diet again after they’ve been released back into the real world. If the person were truly the one in control, there’d be no need for further diets or rehab.
In order to truly get a handle on your weight, YOU must take control permanently. This means no more relying on dieting for control. Because once you go off the diet, it can become a slippery slope into losing control yet again.
Controlling (also called mastering) yourself is the greatest gift you can give to you. This is true empowerment! This is true relief! And because this new found control is internal, it is also eternal, because you don’t have to rely on anything or anyone to keep you on your path.
And the feeling of being truly in control yourself, is a feeling unmatched by any feeling a diet can ever give you!
Have you been addicted to dieting? How do you maintain self-control around food?
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Comments (27)
Yes I am addicted to the sea food diet. I sea food and eat and eat and eat. Actually I never stop eating. But I am still HOT so it works for me!
Actually if we eat the proper foods there is NO such thing as overeating. Impossible! Fact Jack!
Noooooooooooo! I hate diets that restrict what you can/can't eat. I just eat everything in moderation and use hunger as a gauge --I eat when I'm hungry, I stop eating when I'm full. Helps that I'm naturally a slow eater, so I rarely run into the problem of filling up before my brain registers it.
I don't diet (as a verb)
but I do have a diet which consists mostly of veggies (Asian veggies are the best), fruit, whole grains (I love whole grain breads so yummy), lean protein, and nuts. I rarely eat junk food b/c it makes me sick. I also have a pretty intense training schedule when I'm training for an event, even in the off season (which doesn't really exist for me) I tend to exercise alot
I'm happy with my weight but I need to tone up my core a little more...
Good post. I think the control thing can really be applied to any addiction/disorder.
I've never been a fan of diets, nothing you can ever stick with. I just try to do everything in moderation and keep active.
I am addicted to... erratic eating habits.
I'm addicted too cold boiled eggs and salt.
i guess i am.. i am always trying a new diet!
hmmm... tbh, a diet shouldn't even exist. if you want to lose weight... lose weight. If you want to gain weight... gain weight. Eat what you want when ever you want, otherwise you will never truly live freely.
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Unfortunately, it is possible to be addicted to dieting! In my line of work we meet a lot of people who are real diet addicts - always talking about dieting, always on the look for the next "best thing", always following new ultimate diet etc..And those people never have any lasting results! Somehow, and I don't know why, people are unable to realize that diets are not a solution you can (or should!) follow in the long term. Because eating only "chicken and leafy greens" (for example) is NOT healthy, and you may lose weight but you damage your body considerably. If you want to lose weight and keep it off you need to change your diet, but in the sense of changing your eating habits, type of food you consume, frequency and size of your portions...
i used to be in the "addicted to food" category. id eat ridiculous things like containers of frosting, and id keep eating even after i wasnt hungry just because the food was there. i got up to 150 pounds last march, and then i thought that i could stick to a "starvation diet"...that got me down to 145, but then i was back to my old eating habits. finally, this june, something just went off and i decided that i wanted to feel comfortable with my weight again. i ate 3 square meals of about 300 calories each with nothing in between. i know that wasnt the healthiest way to do it, but it worked. i had to have some MAJOR self control though...i threw away all of the fattening food in the house, i taped off the kitchen (with duct tape) in between meals, whenever i started to crave something, i wrote about it instead of eating it OR went for a walk, and anytime there was something tempting in front of me id count to 50 and see if i still wanted it. this summer i lost 25 pounds. im 121 pounds now and im really happy with my weight:)
I am definitely addicted to dieting, but I think that might come with the eating disorder. My weight is always up and down and when I am in a dieting phase, I restrict to calories, not types of food, but the food is always in control. I'm not dumb. I realize it's all an illusion, but the addiction is there anyway because your mind tricks you into thinking, "Now I'm restricting and free from food" and I won't lie, it's an amazing feeling ... Until the depression, lack of sleep, and hyperactivity kick in. That sucks.
I'm pretty sure that his 800 calories a day is considered starving himself- that's not nearly enough for a grown man.
I started dieting the summer before my sophmore yr in highschool. On my own I made a diet plan consisting of:
fish
fruit
skim milk
yogurt
whole grain/wheat
lean protein
and never allowed myself to have: candy chocolate juice white starches simple carbs anything "fattening"
I cut it all out. and ran for 30 minutes a day....I lost 25 pounds in two months.
ever since then Its been a battle with me and food. I loooove food. absolutely LOVE LOVEEEE IT. my social life revolves around it. my family life revolves aorund it. when I think of fun, I think a night out with friends at a great restuarant.
soo yes I think I am addicted to dieting. but def over the yrs I knew how really unrealistic my diet plan was...especially after I gained it back. Now Im eating in moderation...eating healthy foods and working out for about an hour and a half each day.
i love my body and I feel good. I think I have gotten to a really healthy balance in my life right now where it really has BECOME a lifestyle. Being healthy is not a destination its a continual JOURNEY. and I think thats the misconception people have. They think they can do this diet for three months and then go back to their bad habits and still amintain the weight....where in reality theyre gonna gain it ALL if not more back and have to re-do it all over again with a broken spirit and not much hope.
You have to be willing to change your whole life. be willing to give your life a make over. have a whole different mid set of food. everything must change and it must stay that way if you want to be successful your whole life.
I think the only reason I am able to stay on this track is cause Im so vain. My looks are really everythinggg to me. literally if I dont feel "thin" and attractive I wont leave the house...Ill hibernate and work out and diet and starve until Ive shed those vanity pounds.....
you could say im obsessed
Yes. I think I am one.
I've never left the gym more than 72 hours for years already.
Whenever I can get salads, I order it instead of any other dish.
When I overeat, I double my workout tomorrow in the gym.
I count my calories constantly.
But again, it's all worth it. I love how I feel :)
800 calories a day is starvation, plain and simple. this post reminds me a lot of my experiences with eating disorders.
He probably meant to control his temptations for food. Boy, I do hope dieting is an addiction. I want to shed off the fat faster by not over eating. ^,^ Must exercise. This bitch is competing with me, and enjoys seeing me get fatter, while she's getting skinnier, and I should not mention who exactly. I must overcome this sedentary habit of mine. It's time to take control of my body for once. Your friend is an inspiration to overweight people. Like me. (=
Ah, I accidentally disregarded the fact that he only had a daily intake of 800 calories. That is definitely bad for a grown man. I just think what he meant by "taking control over his body" is the idea that most overweight people should have, as long as they don't abuse the statement itself by getting eating disorders.
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I've dieted most of my life. Which led to an eventual binging problem starting in college and finally ending (I haven't binged in ages) after having children. Having been on every type of diet imaginable- skipping meals, trying to fast, cutting certain foods out, eating certain foods, etc., I had to find the way to lose weight that worked for me. The only thing that allowed me to lose weight while still not feeling deprived is the "not eating after 2 pm" diet that I made up myself. I basically eat breakfast and dinner by 2, then my body metabolizes what I ate that day so I lose weight by the morning. That way, I don't have to give up anything. It is very hard for me to give up carbs. Who doesn't want a burger or sandwich every once in awhile? The only thing I can eat or drink after 2 is "boring crackers" like saltines, and fruit snacks, and hot cocoa. Exercise is a bonus but not necessary. (I get in plenty of exercise as a stay at home mom) If I work out I get ravishing hungry then eat too much. The nothing after 2 diet is the ONLY diet that has ever worked for me. If I eat dinner, I just can't seem to stop eating afterwards. Cutting it off at 2 is the best for me.
I take my dieting seriously, two at a time, I never get enough to eat with only one.
I used to have a bad relationship with food. Some days it was evil, others it was good. It had gotten to the point that when I joined the rugby team and the coach was telling me to eat I was floored. Me, needing to eat? This got me out of the "thin is in" mindset to the point I didn't even realize I was losing weight until someone told me to get a belt. I realized my pants were a couple sizes too big and my first thought was not some form of "I can wear skinny jeans again" or "I should go treat myself" it was "I'm maybe ten pounds from needing new bras and my cup size hasn't budged." And trust me, shopping for a 32 -anything- blows.
i go on cycles. the snacking always seems to get me though.
lol cute pic
I don't agree.. addictions are 29403243 times more complicated.