Sunday, 15 November 2009

  • I Want to Be Healthy... But for the Right Reasons.

    I Want to Be Healthy... But for the Right Reasons.
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    It's a given: our culture is becoming more health obsessed. As the U.S. population becomes more obese, new diets are popping up everywhere. There are more health blogs, sections for health in the news, and health discoveries daily. Is it all for the right reason, though?

    In the past few weeks, as some of you may have been following, I've been going through a very significant self-discovery period. After quitting smoking and going through a potentially fatal illness, I was finding difficulty in falling back into my normal life here at college. Futhermore, I'm still adjusting to my new life up here... And even though it was all extremely stressful, I went (and am still) going through a kind of euphoric epiphany about my well-being.

    Translation? I'm taking care of myself, and discovering who I am.

    The self-discovery, I feel, is healthy in general. It can't possibly be a discovery... based on what I'm experiencing, I'm not exactly finding anything. I'm just kind of creating it. This kind of thinking lead me to my motivation to become more healthy.

    When we go on diets, we do it to lose weight.
    When we exercise, we do it to lose weight, tone up, or just be healthier in general.
    When we stray away from anger, jealousy, and negative feelings in general, we do it to appear more likeable to others.

    Let me tell you that I can't exactly pinpoint when my brain turned off the "temptation to eat a nasty dining hall cheeseburger" switch. I couldn't tell you why I decided that I needed to go to the gym every day, and I can't possibly explain why thinking about smoking a cigarette or downing a an excessive amount of alcohol sounds repulsive to me right now.

    The only thing I can tell you is that I really, truly just want to be healthy.

    There's a connection, I think, between your body and your mind that is unexplainable - and always will be - and I think this relationship starts with the mind. When the mind chooses to take care of the body and take that first step, the body chooses to take care of the mind. When the mind disregards what the body needs, the body doesn't resent it... it doesn't want to punish it. It just acts accordingly. Sluggishly. Not to its full potential.

    So when you add up all of that spiritual mumbo-jumbo, what I'm really trying to say is that you really have to get psyched to be healthy for the right reasons. Right now, in my life, I have so many priorities to sort out. Health is definitely at the top. How can it not be? I am my health. When all else fails in life, my health will be all I have. It's something that nobody can take away from me, or change.

    This isn't just physical health- mental health is also substantially important to me as well. With the combination of the two, at times I feel invincible. It's moments like after my Yoga class when the two connect that I feel so in tune I could literally accomplish anything. And I truly believe that to the fullest extent.

    Trying to be healthy for the "wrong" reasons isn't harmful in any way. But when you are genuinely becoming healthy to become healthy and you have a solid reason to do this and change your life- the results are priceless, and long lasting (I would say forever lasting- but how would I know?).

    Why do you want to be healthy? What's your true motivation?

Comments (8)

  • breaking_expectations@xanga

    My motivation for being healthy is to kick ass on a wrestling mat. I don't do it for anyone but myself and my team.

    That being said, I'm a natural athlete. The high after a good workout is better than any drug, I love it.

    (also, your profile picture is gorgeous. I had to point that out)

  • galadrielspitcher@xanga

    i simply love feeling healthy. it's totally worth it to say no to gross foods...and really, fast food just seems gross now, i don't even want it anymore.and working out feels amazing...it gets pretty addictive.

  • DaRkFaiRy314@xanga

    My motivation is to live a long and energetic, happy, strong, and healthy life with no complications that can be prevented by simply taking a healthy daily lifestyle! Health is living. Living is health. Would you gamble on your health? Would you gamble on life? You only have one life (at least in my perspective). I want to make it worth it and the best time I will ever have on Earth. I want to look back and smile. I want to be able to do anything I want, especially with a healthy body. and look back and say yes. I have lived :) The feeling is also way worth it.

  • irish__dreams@xanga

    I want to be healthy because I want to have self-confidence. Being physically, mentally and spiritually healthy means I can take care of myself. Taking care of myself means I will become happier. Happiness, I have found, brings me self-confidence, which is what I need.
    Another motivation would be to, hopefully, live a longer and healthier life. I'm only given one body to live in, so that should be a good enough reason to keep it in great shape, all around.


    Thank you for this. I loved your post.

  • The_Bodyguard@mancouch

    We have to have a healthy sense of mind and being before we can take better care of our bodies. If we are going through a depression, when nothing seems to be able to motivate us to work, then we need to concentrate on getting ourselves out of the funk. If I ever fell in a depression, I would go and see these disabled people who are getting through their lives with a healthy attitude and a positive outlook. I set myself goals that aren't too hard to achieve. I need to be farsighted in many areas.

  • MangoWOW@xanga

    I'll be honest: My drive for eating better and working out is so that I can come out thinner and more beautiful.


    Of course, I am worried about getting diabetes and dying of a heart attack. I have worried about it. It just isn't my main concern.


    I want to fit into smaller clothes. I want to be able to take pictures with my friends and not be embarassed to be tagged on facebook. I want to be able to shop for cute outfits and wear skirts without wondering if my thighs are grossing people out. And most of all: I want guys to start looking and paying attention to me.

  • CuriousiTea@xanga

    @breaking_expectations@xanga - Thank you! :) And yeah, after a workout I feel pretty indescribably awesome. It's wonderful.
    @galadrielspitcher@xanga - Healthiness is addictive! I love it. And I wish people who were unhealthy trying to become healthy could understand that feeling.
    @DaRkFaiRy314@xanga - My thoughts exactly!
    @irish__dreams@xanga - Thank you! I'm glad you see health almost exactly the same way I do.
    @MangoWOW@xanga - Hmm.. Maybe you should look at it like this: You want to be healthier, physically, to be happier. You believe that being more in shape will bring you all of those things, and therefore make you happier. So, you want to be healthier physically to be healthier mentally.
    That's the optimist in me that you just can't calm, though. :P
    I'm going to be a total nerd and recommend a book to you. It's called Stumbling Upon Happiness by Daniel Gilbert... I think it would honestly change your outlook on life, if you're interested in things like that. :)

  • G1G1626

    I practice a healthy lifestyle because...
    - I want to be fit
    - I want to have energy
    - I want to have muscles
    - I want to fight osteoperosis
    - I want to live long & healthy
    - I want to relieve stress
    - I want to be happy
    - I want to breath easily
    - I want healthy teeth, hair, gums, skin, eyes, organs, etc.
    - I want to keep my self-confidence & continue to boost it

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